start of menopause? 

Dr. Iris,
I am 39 years old and for the first time (except when I was pregnant) my period was two weeks late. I noticed last night that after I urinated there was bright red blood on the toilet paper. I was surprised by how red the blood was. This morning it was spotty, to the point I never needed a pad. Tonight the discharge was a dark brownish color. I never got a period. My mother started going through menopause at the early age of 35. Could this be the start?. My husband had a vasectomy six years ago so I don’t think I am pregnant. Any suggestions? Thank you so much for your time.

Karla
 

Dear Karla,
For many years before you actually go through menopause, you are in perimenopause. This time is characterized by menstrual irregularities, hot flashes, night sweats, itchy skin, dry vagina, etc. It is certainly possible… even probable, given your family history, that you are in this early stage of menopause (menopause is the last menstrual period and is only that occurrence). Make an appointment with your gynecologist and discuss menopause with him/her.

Good luck,
Iris